Monthly Archives: September 2015

It’s Like We’re Speaking Two Different Languages

When I went back to Samoa, I was pleasantly surprised at how quickly (and how much of) the language came back to me. Actually, I was amazed by it. I slipped into old habits of verbal and nonverbal communication styles without intentionally doing so. It was thoughtless, effortless. While that was tremendously useful when I was on the island, my Samoan unfortunately has limited applicability here in the United States, and particularly so in North Carolina (the complete opposite coast from the larger ethnically Samoan pockets). I have always considered speaking a second language as something to facilitate my work, but speaking Samoan doesn’t help me provide services to more people when such a small percentage of the local population identifies as Samoan that the number was too small to be reported in the 2010 census.

Long ago, I made a deal with myself that if I found a career in the United States, I would learn Spanish. Well, now I have a career in the United States and I have yet to learn Spanish. (I have 8 million excuses for why that can’t/won’t happen right now, but that’s an entirely different story. One thing at a time). However, there are a few staff members in my office that speak Spanish, and I have a few volunteers that speak Spanish. One of those volunteers is particularly patient with me when I try to use the 12 words of Spanish I know to communicate with her. Our conversations go something like this:

Her: Spanish, Spanish, Spanish (at a slow pace with exaggerated hand movements and facial expressions)
Me: English, thinking really hard, one Spanish word, trailing off…
Her: Spanish, Spanish, Spanish (same as before)
Me: Samoan, one Spanish word, confusion, Samoan
Her: Spanish, some confusion, Spanish
Me: Samoan, thinking really hard, brain melt, more Samoan

These interactions inevitably disintegrate into two entirely different languages. She doesn’t recognize that I’m speaking Samoan because I’ve been trying so hard to speak (or at least understand) Spanish, and once my brain shifts gears into Samoan, all hope is lost. The harder I try to explain myself in English, the more my brain becomes entrenched in Samoan, and the effort put into reestablishing some level of communication instead only sustains the language barrier.

Aside from the intense mental energy required for these conversations, I find them highly amusing. It seems absurd to me that we can end up trying to communicate in two entirely different and unrelated languages, yet still seem to have some sense of understanding. I also enjoy the  challenge they present, which I haven’t really experienced since I first started learning Samoan in the early weeks of my time in Peace Corps (almost 5 years ago!). Mostly, though, I appreciate her patience and good humor in trying to teach me new Spanish words to add to my limited vocabulary. Every little bit helps, right?


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Chocolate Chocolate Chip Walnut Cookies

1 C flour
1/3 C unsweetened cocoa
1/2 tsp baking powder
1/4 tsp baking soda
1/4 tsp salt
1 C sugar
1/3 C butter
1 tsp vanilla
1 large egg
Chocolate chips and walnuts to taste


Sift together the flour, cocoa, baking powder, baking soda, and salt





Cream the butter and sugar until smooth, then add in the vanilla and egg.  Mix.

Add in the dry ingredients, mix until just combined.

Gently mix in chocolate chips and walnuts










Bake at 350 for 8-10 minutes. *Note: cook time varies depending on your oven and how the racks are placed in your oven (i.e., the bottom of the cookies might burn if your racks are too low in the oven. I may or may not have learned that the hard way…)




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